Tag: Red Pill

You Don’t Have To Like Everyone

You Don’t Have To Like Everyone

We all want to be good people. We want to treat others well and be treated well. We want to be optimistic, tolerant, generous, honorable, agreeable and kind and many other virtues that we would use to describe someone we would admire very much. We want this because it is right, but also because the pain of being rejected because we...Read More
You Can’t "Red Pill" Someone Else

You Can’t "Red Pill" Someone Else

The red pill has entered the common lexicon as a term. Many are confused by what it means and just as many are confused about how it happens.  I wrote about what "red pill" means to me here, "What is the Red Pill".  No, I will explain why you can't "red pill" someone else. We want to believe that we...Read More
What Is the Red Pill?

What Is the Red Pill?

I refer to the term red pill enough on this blog that I wanted to post what I know of it for reference and clarification.  The term has grown and changed over the years. And many will argue about its meaning. So I am clarifying here with what it means to me. Wikipedia describes the red and blue pills as follows:...Read More
Women Have a Deep Need for Security

Women Have a Deep Need for Security

Women have a great need for security. It is part of our nature to seek security because we are naturally insecure.  On a survival level we have a subconscious awareness of our small size and weaker physical stature and seek protection. While our need for physical protection to compensate for our vulnerabilities that come from being smaller, pregnancy, frailty, etc...Read More
How to Defuse the Power of Words

How to Defuse the Power of Words

As I wrote recently in "Insults Don't Matter" one of the most important skills of a no bullsh!t mindset is the ability to be impervious to insults, attempts at character assassination, name calling and other rat behavior meant to topple the power dynamic leaving you on the losing end. On the flip side, one must also be unaffected by flattery as it...Read More