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    I’m not Needy, I’m Wanty

    Dear Diary, I think we get kind of headstrong trying not to need anyone. We try to prove we have so much to offer by insisting we will take nothing from someone else. Let me in, we seem to say, I won’t make a dent on you. But what’s wrong with needing someone? What’s wrong with some giving and taking? For me, you have to break it down to get anywhere. Do I need him to make me feel valuable? Bad Does his affection give me self-worth? Bad Do I need the status as a couple to feel good about myself? Bad When we talk about needing people in a…