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    Rejecting the Nice Guy

    It’s no secret I’m no fan of “nice guys.”  I’m not talking about “good” people here. I love good people. In fact, I’m glad– for the sake of common decency and societal calm–that nice guys are nice and polite as a course of their day because grumpy, negative Nelly’s are worse, but as far as dating goes, I’m not going to date a “nice guy.” Nope. Not going to happen. I find “Nice Guys” to be artificial, entitled, self-absorbed and dull. A nice guy spends so much time trying to be who he thinks you want him to be, that he has no idea what he wants or needs. Nice guys…

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    Nice Guys, Bad Boys and Good Guys: A Breakdown

    Do you hear women talk about Nice Guys, Bad Boys and Good Guys? We settle for a Nice Guy, we let loose with a Bad Boy, but what we truly want is a Good Guy, and here’s why… Simple explanation of the difference between Nice Guys, Bad Boys and Good Guys Nice Guys Nice Guys only feel comfortable with the woman on the left, and while the one on the right turns him on, she intimidates the hell out of him. The women on the right exist for him in fantasy, porn, and strip clubs. While they excite him sexually, they threaten him intellectually. While he may not admit it,…