Your Feminine Voice
There are many ways men and women are different. The voice is an obvious example. Men have deep low voices and women have higher, more airy voices. But our voices are actually different in several other, more subtle ways and once you are aware of them, you can learn to use your voice to tap into your femininity, reach his masculine needs and also gut check yourself on some of your worst habits. Women and men use their voices differently. Men basically have two voices: inside voice and outside voice. You could also add their ridiculous falsetto voice they use when roasting each other, but for the most part, they…
Your Feminine Body
This is quite possibly the most important essay on femininity I will ever write. If you do the things I ask you to do in this post, it will begin to change your life, for the better, immediately. You probably won’t want to do these things. Not because they are hard or complicated, but because you will feel foolish. But I can assure you, the truly foolish will let your ego and pride get in the way of performing these exercises and following the direction of what I ask of you in this post. The wise will participate. It’s your life. Are you an observer? No. Then read every word…
Ladies, Embrace Your Sexuality Damn it!
Ladies, I’ve noticed a disturbing trend recently of men knowing women’s bodies better than women do. Women are not taking charge of their own sexuality. For all the talk about empowerment and abandoning shame, it seems that female sexual desire is still misunderstood at best and at worst denied and repressed. Our mothers shepherded society through the sexual revolution giving us more control of our bodies and our sex lives. I love that we are able to talk about sex more openly and I love that so many of you are enjoying it and feeling as if you have a right to do it whenever and with whoever you want. You…
He Doesn’t Want What You Want
Men and women have undeniable similarities in what they want out of life, love and relationships, but how they find and express these desires is very different. It is my belief that men and women seek a deeply intimate and passionate relationship with a partner. We want to be with someone who both challenges and comforts us, who supports and encourages us, and also someone who knows when to rein us in, sit us down and remind us to take a break. When it comes to relationships, communication is one place were we are on different paths. Not our verbal communication or even our non-verbal communication– where we miss the mark is how we…
How To Stay Soft Through Hard Times
Ladies, One of your most alluring and valuable traits is your softness. You may not always appreciate these traits in yourself and they may not always serve you, but they are beautiful and should be cherished and protected. We need more softness in this world and women are the bearers of the softest joys. The way you can see both sides of an issue. They way you root for the underdog. The way you concede to end conflicts. The way your heart aches for the needy and less fortunate. The way you desire to heal and care for others. Yes, even the way you cry when you feel so much…
