• Attraction,  Essay,  Women

    Science Continues to Study and Misinterpret Women’s Desires

    This article claims that science backs up a woman’s desire for bad boys then implores men to be “nice” anyway. “In the end, the idea that women want to date bad boys really just reinforces the misogynist’s idea of deceitful women and earnest “nice” men baffled by their lack of dating success. It allows some men to blame and hate women as a means of deflecting attention away from their own shortcomings. So, if you’re looking to science for some advice, it’s simple: be nice.” The problem with articles like this is that the oblivious researchers and readers align “badness” with smoking, criminal behavior, deception, cheating and violence. Then they…

  • Attraction,  Essay,  Men

    Rejecting the Nice Guy

    It’s no secret I’m no fan of “nice guys.”  I’m not talking about “good” people here. I love good people. In fact, I’m glad– for the sake of common decency and societal calm–that nice guys are nice and polite as a course of their day because grumpy, negative Nelly’s are worse, but as far as dating goes, I’m not going to date a “nice guy.” Nope. Not going to happen. I find “Nice Guys” to be artificial, entitled, self-absorbed and dull. A nice guy spends so much time trying to be who he thinks you want him to be, that he has no idea what he wants or needs. Nice guys…

  • Attraction,  Essay

    Bad Boys Aren’t So Bad

    “There’s something about a bad boy; like, if he doesn’t give a fuck, then I really want to.” Most bad boys are not that bad. Women just make them out to be bad as a way to deny that we made bad choices. Yes, there are jerks out there who deceive and manipulate, I’m not talking about those guys. I’m not talking about abusive guys or liars. I’m talking about the men who have an undeniable, irresistible sexual energy and social presence who cannot be tamed and as a result make us feel an emotional chaos between wanting, getting and never obtaining that drives us nuts. It’s important for women…

  • Attraction,  Essay

    Nice Guys, Bad Boys and Good Guys: A Breakdown

    Do you hear women talk about Nice Guys, Bad Boys and Good Guys? We settle for a Nice Guy, we let loose with a Bad Boy, but what we truly want is a Good Guy, and here’s why… Simple explanation of the difference between Nice Guys, Bad Boys and Good Guys Nice Guys Nice Guys only feel comfortable with the woman on the left, and while the one on the right turns him on, she intimidates the hell out of him. The women on the right exist for him in fantasy, porn, and strip clubs. While they excite him sexually, they threaten him intellectually. While he may not admit it,…