• blog,  Life Lessons,  Mindset

    Off Grid August

    When I was in my twenties, I went on a four-month trip through Europe on a EuroRail ticket. This was before cell phones. I bought by the minute phone cards in each country I visited so that I could call home once or twice a week. Except for the moments when I was on the phone, no one knew where I was. I could be in Paris one day and Rome the next. If I went missing, no one would know what country to start searching to find me. This was both scary and thrilling, but mostly thrilling. Now that I am older, being completely unavailable is not thrilling. In fact,…

  • Balcony,  blog,  Members Only,  Mindset

    It’s Spring and I’m an Electrical Storm

    I am going to show my broken places while sharing how we can carve a new path of self-reliance without shutting opportunities for love and connection. We need to learn to identify who truly deserves our attachment, trust, commitment and loyalty and then give ourselves freely. Not the other way around. We've been giving ourselves freely to those who don't deserve us and then wondering why we are not appreciated, not valued, not loved and protected.

  • Attraction,  blog,  Essay,  Love is Blind Book,  Medium,  Observations OMS

    The Secrets of a Man’s Heart

    Women love sex. Not only do women love sex, but, in fact, women are far more sexual than men.  When it comes down to it, men enjoy the release of orgasm and love sex, and they are biologically wired to seek out sex, but when aroused, women have a much deeper, and more complex sexuality, and a far greater need for sexual exploration.  A man’s horniness is chronic, but a woman’s horniness is acute and when aroused, women are more likely to “lose contro,” and “lose themselves” in the sex act than men.  Both men and women experience lust and desire, but for men these desires are on a lower, but more…

  • Attraction,  blog

    Bad Boys Aren’t So Bad

    “There’s something about a bad boy; like, if he doesn’t give a fuck, then I really want to.” Most bad boys are not that bad. Women just make them out to be bad as a way to deny that we made bad choices. Yes, there are jerks out there who deceive and manipulate, I’m not talking about those guys. I’m not talking about abusive guys or liars. I’m talking about the men who have an undeniable, irresistible sexual energy and social presence who cannot be tamed and as a result make us feel an emotional chaos between wanting, getting and never obtaining that drives us nuts. It’s important for women…