• Attraction,  Essay,  Header Slider,  Social Conditioning

    Men Love Sex, Women Love Attention.

    There’s so much bitterness and resentment currently between the sexes.  Why? Because they simply don’t understand each other.  They want the other to be just like them.  The myth of marrying your best friend and equality and treat him/her how you want to be treated has completely confused the f*ck out of everyone. I’m not saying he can’t be your friend. But he’s not going to be like your girlfriend.  If you want a partner to shop with you and talk to you endlessly about what could or might happen “if” scenarios, then you want a partner who is a woman. He doesn’t want that.  Similarly guys, if you want…

  • Essay,  Men,  Social Conditioning,  Women

    He Doesn’t Want What You Want

    Men and women have undeniable similarities in what they want out of life, love and relationships, but how they find and express these desires is very different.  It is my belief that men and women seek a deeply intimate and passionate relationship with a partner.  We want to be with someone who both challenges and comforts us, who supports and encourages us, and also someone who knows when to rein us in, sit us down and remind us to take a break. When it comes to relationships, communication is one place were we are on different paths.  Not our verbal communication or even our non-verbal communication– where we miss the mark is how we…

  • Essay,  Social Conditioning,  Women

    Stop Being So Damn Accommodating

    One of the worst things women do when trying to snag a man is to make themselves accommodating. They play the cool chick and present themselves as having not many needs, or even the exact same needs as his. It’s completely artificial! Anyone who is authentic can identify and connect with authenticity in someone else. If you are being fake, he can feel it and he will immediately bangzone you. The bangzone for women is similar to the friendzone for men. It’s where your relationship potential has limits because the other person is willing to take what he or she wants but won’t reciprocate and fulfill what you want. If…