Sex and Attraction

Sex, Attraction and Desire

Essays

Here’s Why Men Always Fall For Crazy Bitches

By Kitten Holiday | Jan 24, 2018

Men claim all day long they don’t like to date “psycho bitches” or “crazy women” and that they “don’t want drama.” It’s on almost all their dating profiles; “no drama.” This is a big fat lie. This is as big a lie as the women who “want a sensitive, nice guy.” Our actions reveal more […]

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May September Dating – Not Even Age Can Stop You Now

By Kitten Holiday | Aug 23, 2017

Not only are mid-life singles not limited by race, nationality, religion, distance, or gender, but we are truly no longer limited by age. Forty-five-year-old men can date twenty-five-year-old women, wine them dine them, then turn them in for a different variety without so much as a snide remark. Well, maybe the older single women will […]

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Desire is Life

By Kitten Holiday | Jul 24, 2017

Desire gives our lives meaning and purpose. Wanting something, or someone, gives our life the spark and push we need to work through the hard parts, wake up in the morning, get excited. Desire is the ignition for everything we care about. We may think having all our needs and desires met at the snap […]

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Science Continues to Study and Misinterpret Women’s Desires

By Kitten Holiday | Jul 12, 2016

This article claims that science backs up a woman’s desire for bad boys then implores men to be “nice” anyway. “In the end, the idea that women want to date bad boys really just reinforces the misogynist’s idea of deceitful women and earnest “nice” men baffled by their lack of dating success. It allows some […]

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Be Careful Who You Let Yourself Love

By Kitten Holiday | Jun 25, 2016

Be careful who you let yourself love. The modern dating scene is filled with takers who will play with your heart, waste your time and string you along, get all their needs met while giving nothing but the hope of something more, maybe, someday, just be patient… Hookup culture, modern feminist ideas of the sexually […]

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What is "Game"?

By Kitten Holiday | Jun 21, 2016

We’ve all heard dating called a game. It’s a game of cat and mouse. There are players, winners and losers. There are also “rules of the game,” and ways to cheat the game. But there is also another way that the word “game” is used in dating to describe the traits that make a man […]

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Don’t Ask For Permission

By Kitten Holiday | Apr 4, 2016

Relationships are dying. Passion is dying. Seduction is dying.  Men are turning to porn and robots for sexual fulfillment. Women are turning to romance books and vibrators.  And both are opting out of relationships entirely. It’s just become too much trouble to deal with the opposite sex. We’ve become enemies. We resent instead of appreciate […]

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It Doesn’t Matter If You’re A Little Ugly

By Kitten Holiday | Feb 23, 2016

Men, if you’re kind of ugly, don’t sweat it. If you’ve got rough skin a goofy nose and a soft little belly and scars and asymmetrical eyes, no woman of character will mind. But if you lack self-respect, if you waver on your principles, if you make excuses or shy away from responsibility, there’s no amount of pretty that can save you.

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Just Because He’s Dating, Doesn’t Mean He’s Available

By Kitten Holiday | Jan 31, 2016

You simply can’t take anything for granted. Finding a balance so you stay hopeful and optimistic without being naive and where you are cautious but not cynical is very difficult. But it’s worth working to find that balance. Without it you will be like a pinball pouncing from date to date, highlight to heartbreak without any idea how to stop the madness and find the balance you want.

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