Month: July 2015

Being "Nice" Doesn’t Get You Sex

Being "Nice" Doesn’t Get You Sex

Here's a secret that Nice Guys don't seem to understand.  If you read this and you are thinking this is the most obvious post on the planet then you might be either a bad boy or a good guy.  But there are guys who will read this and think, "well yes that makes sense but..."  If there is a "but"...Read More
It’s Not You, It’s Him

It’s Not You, It’s Him

There are a lot of things to consider when you are dating and seeking a partner.  Most articles eagerly point out the obvious like "do you like him," "are your lifestyles and values compatible?" One question women often overlook that lands them in miserable, unsatisfying relationships is probably more important than any of the others. Does he like women? I’m...Read More
How To Stay Soft Through Hard Times

How To Stay Soft Through Hard Times

Ladies, One of your most alluring and valuable traits is your softness.  You may not always appreciate these traits in yourself and they may not always serve you, but they are beautiful and should be cherished and protected.  We need more softness in this world and women are the bearers of the softest joys. The way you can see both...Read More
Rejecting the Nice Guy

Rejecting the Nice Guy

It's no secret I'm no fan of "nice guys."  I'm not talking about "good" people here. I love good people. In fact, I'm glad-- for the sake of common decency and societal calm--that nice guys are nice and polite as a course of their day because grumpy, negative Nelly's are worse, but as far as dating goes, I'm not going...Read More
The Thursday Night Booty Text

The Thursday Night Booty Text

Dear Diary, I swear I was minding my own business.  It was a Thursday night and I was home alone doing something admirably responsible like multi-tasking laundry, dishes, cleaning, bills, car maintenance, organic meal planning and yoga.  Something like that. It was 6:30 PM.  The dog had eaten, I’d changed into PJs because I wasn’t going anywhere.  I mean, come...Read More