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  • Anonymous

    I'm a man newly with a woman who thinks she has a high libido, but after a dozen times in bed I am coming to see that she has a well-developed taste for just a few things, and does not interested in me or what I have to offer beyond this fairly hot but very limited menu of three or four frat-boy style actions: grab, face-fuck, hard pounding.<br /><br />She *thinks* she is uninhibited but it

    • Kitten Holiday

      Any relationship is not just about sex and you are noting the difference between quantity and quality. No one wants to feel like a prop and it sounds like that's how she makes you feel. If you want to be invested in the relationship, try to engage her mind and imagination and lead her to try new things by stirring her imagination. <br /><br />On the other hand, many people are very focused

  • Suzannebyshore

    To Anonymous: Communication is key. If you're involved enough to have had a dozen sexual encounters, then I take it you are interested in this woman. Talk to her; ask her what she wants and enjoys, and tell her what would turn you on. Engage in a conversation about desires.If she isn't willing to share in this conversation, it's time to move on.

  • Suzannebyshore

    To Anonymous: Communication is key. If you're involved enough to have had a dozen sexual encounters, then I take it you are interested in this woman. Talk to her; ask her what she wants and enjoys, and tell her what would turn you on. Engage in a conversation about desires.If she isn't willing to share in this conversation, it's time to move on.

  • Edgar Jim Hawthorne

    I like this article and am not surprised to find out some things here. I think honesty is an important factor when it comes to issues of intimacy and sex. You want your partner to trust you enough to open up the most private things then you have to be honest as well. When they do open up be careful to withhold knee jerk reactions or judgments and think before you speak. If they feel ostracized or ridiculed then they will shut the door just as fast as it has opened. You don’t wanna throw everything out there at once either. These things take time and ultimately what your partner chooses to share with you is determined by how much they trust you. Great post.

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