Tag: passion

Sensual Anarchy

Sensual Anarchy

Your love is so cold and clothed.  Your brutal indifference.  I’m bringing needy back.  It’s become such a curse, it’s a shame, to need someone. Why!? We want to be needed but we don’t want to need. Vulnerability is a dirty feeling, like insecurity and […]

Ladies, Embrace Your Sexuality Damn it!

Ladies, Embrace Your Sexuality Damn it!

Ladies, I’ve noticed a disturbing trend recently of men knowing women’s bodies better than women do. Women are not taking charge of their own sexuality. For all the talk about empowerment and abandoning shame, it seems that female sexual desire is still misunderstood at best and […]

Emotional Stability Will Ruin Your Relationship

Emotional Stability Will Ruin Your Relationship

Despite all the Martha Stewarts of dating who would like you to believe that the holy grail of a healthy relationship is emotional stability: It’s not. A preoccupation with emotional stability, yours and your partners, will ruin your relationship.  Lazy thinking causes people to think […]

Peppermint Kisses

Peppermint Kisses

His beard had grown longer and was speckled with grey hairs.  His skin was tan, his arms swollen with muscles from long days working outside.  I got to look in his light blue eyes again.  He looked back at me intently, a smile curling up on his lips. […]

Sloppy wet tongue kisses and other awesome things

Dear Diary, My daughter was asking me about boys and dating. We got on the subject of kisses and she asked me if I’d kissed anyone in the last year. I told her yes. She asked if it was a smooch or a peck and […]

A Deep Need for Excitement In All Of Us

A Deep Need for Excitement In All Of Us

Our lifestyles set us up for repetition, redundancy, disappointment. We fear risk and rejection and as a result we suffer from lack of excitement. Our need for excitement as real to our bodies and our health as  healthy food and water.   A lack of excitement […]

All or Nothing!

All or Nothing!

So in business there’s the “cost of doing business.” It’s not your standard operating costs, overhead, investments that we consider a loss. It’s investing in ideas that don’t pan out, employees that bail after being trained or clients that quit you. There’s the cost to […]

What You’ve Heard About Sex is Wrong

What You’ve Heard About Sex is Wrong

What if I told you that men are the more loving and more romantic of the genders, and women are more sexual What if the “norm” is simply a result of society’s desire to tame and restrain us so that we will not cause problems, […]