Tag: love

May September Dating – Not Even Age Can Stop You Now

May September Dating – Not Even Age Can Stop You Now

Not only are mid-life singles not limited by race, nationality, religion, distance, or gender, but we are truly no longer limited by age. Forty-five-year-old men can date twenty-five-year-old women, wine them dine them, then turn them in for a different variety without so much as […]

What I Know About Love

If I’ve learned anything at all about love, it’s that it’s just like childbirth. You can read as many books about the subject as you want with the hope it’s going to prepare you but once it hits, there’s nothing you can do to stop […]

Sensual Anarchy

Sensual Anarchy

Your love is so cold and clothed.  Your brutal indifference.  I’m bringing needy back.  It’s become such a curse, it’s a shame, to need someone. Why!? We want to be needed but we don’t want to need. Vulnerability is a dirty feeling, like insecurity and […]

It's Spring and I'm an Electrical Storm

I am going to show my broken places while sharing how we can carve a new path of self-reliance without shutting opportunities for love and connection. We need to learn to identify who truly deserves our attachment, trust, commitment and loyalty and then give ourselves freely. Not the other way around. We’ve been giving ourselves freely to those who don’t deserve us and then wondering why we are not appreciated, not valued, not loved and protected.

Love Doesn't Pull Punches

If I’ve learned anything at all about love, it’s that it’s just like childbirth. There are thousands of books you can read that will tell you how to prepare yourself. Everyone has a story or twelve and an endless supply of advice.  You can read […]

A Reconnaissance For Love

A Reconnaissance For Love

That’s the tragedy of love after loss.  No one climbs to the watchtower to look out for patience or forgiveness.  No one sends out a reconnaissance for love.

Being "Nice" Doesn’t Get You Sex

Being "Nice" Doesn’t Get You Sex

Here’s a secret that Nice Guys don’t seem to understand.  If you read this and you are thinking this is the most obvious post on the planet then you might be either a bad boy or a good guy.  But there are guys who will […]

Peppermint Kisses

Peppermint Kisses

His beard had grown longer and was speckled with grey hairs.  His skin was tan, his arms swollen with muscles from long days working outside.  I got to look in his light blue eyes again.  He looked back at me intently, a smile curling up on his lips. […]

The Truth About Sex

The Truth About Sex

We are living in an environment controlled by shame and animosity. We are conditioned to accept four myths about our nature and even when we claim to deny or disagree with them, we have not completely escaped their control of us. We are still limited […]

He Wasn't Prepared

He was prepared for everything else, but not for this. He was prepared for hard work, for sacrifice, for long hours. He was prepared to do what’s right, what’s necessary, what no one else would do. He was prepared to go unnoticed, to get the […]