Tag: Daring Femininity

Your Feminine Body

Your Feminine Body

This is quite possibly the most important essay on femininity I will ever write.  If you do the things I ask you to do in this post, it will begin to change your life, for the better, immediately. You probably won’t want to do these […]

Women Have a Deep Need for Security

Women Have a Deep Need for Security

Women have a great need for security. It is part of our nature to seek security because we are naturally insecure.  On a survival level we have a subconscious awareness of our small size and weaker physical stature and seek protection. While our need for […]

Lack of Self Preservation Isn’t A Virtue

Lack of Self Preservation Isn’t A Virtue

Lack of self preservation is not a virtue. If you put others interests so far ahead of yourself that you become vulnerable or victimized, you end up putting not only yourself, but the community in danger.  Every adult should work to ensure they can stand on their own […]

How to Defuse the Power of Words

How to Defuse the Power of Words

If information provokes a strong emotional reaction that challenges you and makes you uncomfortable. Don’t ignore it. Explore it!

Insults Don’t Matter and Neither Does Flattery

Insults Don’t Matter and Neither Does Flattery

You Can Walk Through Glass If you woke up one day and found out that something that has the capacity to cause great injury had no effect on you, how would you react? If you realized that, for instance, you could walk through glass without […]

You Don't Need a Man? Bullshit!

I get tired of hearing unhappy women talk about how they don’t need a man.  Especially while they are constantly searching for one.  Since when has it become shameful to need someone? Since when have we become embarrassed by our desire to connect?  Of course […]

Ladies, Embrace Your Sexuality Damn it!

Ladies, Embrace Your Sexuality Damn it!

Ladies, I’ve noticed a disturbing trend recently of men knowing women’s bodies better than women do. Women are not taking charge of their own sexuality. For all the talk about empowerment and abandoning shame, it seems that female sexual desire is still misunderstood at best and […]

Women Are Needy and Terrible Listeners

Women Are Needy and Terrible Listeners

It’s true.  Women are terrible listeners. I don’t know how we got the reputation for being good listeners because we aren’t. Not even a little.  I guess we are good at all the peripheral signals of listening: eye contact, nodding, sympathetic sighs, touching a hand, […]

How To Stay Soft Through Hard Times

How To Stay Soft Through Hard Times

Ladies, One of your most alluring and valuable traits is your softness.  You may not always appreciate these traits in yourself and they may not always serve you, but they are beautiful and should be cherished and protected.  We need more softness in this world […]

A Deep Need for Excitement In All Of Us

A Deep Need for Excitement In All Of Us

Our lifestyles set us up for repetition, redundancy, disappointment. We fear risk and rejection and as a result we suffer from lack of excitement. Our need for excitement as real to our bodies and our health as  healthy food and water.   A lack of excitement […]