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What If I Never Break The Crystal?

By Kitten Holiday | Aug 3, 2017

I was trying to get rid of stuff. STUFF. The Stuff that creeps into the house and takes hold in drawers and corners and on countertops. It hangs in closets and is tossed up on shelves out of reach but it’s not out — OUT — like it should be. It is just out of […]

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Lack of Self Preservation Isn't A Virtue

By Kitten Holiday | Aug 5, 2016

Lack of self preservation is not a virtue. If you put others interests so far ahead of yourself that you become vulnerable or victimized, you end up putting not only yourself, but the community in danger.  Every adult should work to ensure they can stand on their own and not weigh down the group. The elderly, the children, […]

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How to Stop Feeling Guilty and Start Being A Badass

By Kitten Holiday | May 10, 2016

I read an article on Elite Daily last week about how women feel guilty 97% of the time. I found this startling since I also personally find that women blame others 97% of the time.  In this modern world, women are angry. They are angry at the patriarchy, at men, at beauty standards, at air […]

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Never Give Up More than You're Willing to Lose

By Kitten Holiday | Jan 28, 2016

So much in life is a gamble. While you can do your best to stack the odds in your benefit, there are simply no guarantees. Natural disaster, human error, misinformation. Even with the best preparation and intentions, things don’t always go as planned.

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How to Defuse the Power of Words

By Kitten Holiday | Jan 21, 2016

If information provokes a strong emotional reaction that challenges you and makes you uncomfortable. Don’t ignore it. Explore it!

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Insults Don't Matter and Neither Does Flattery

By Kitten Holiday | Jan 10, 2016

You Can Walk Through Glass If you woke up one day and found out that something that has the capacity to cause great injury had no effect on you, how would you react? If you realized that, for instance, you could walk through glass without a single scratch, much less the bloody lacerations that would […]

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How To Stay Soft Through Hard Times

By Kitten Holiday | Jul 11, 2015

Ladies, One of your most alluring and valuable traits is your softness.  You may not always appreciate these traits in yourself and they may not always serve you, but they are beautiful and should be cherished and protected.  We need more softness in this world and women are the bearers of the softest joys. The […]

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Don't Put Up With Bad Behavior

By Kitten Holiday | Jun 11, 2015

First things first; because whenever I post something, people like to point out all the exceptions and that is really such a drag, you should consider getting over yourself.  😉 Disclaimer for the reactive types: This post is not about abuse of any kind. It’s not about willfully mean or insulting behavior.  It is not […]

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Don't Confuse Indifference Alley with the High Road

By Kitten Holiday | May 12, 2015

If someone behaves badly and also drinks or takes drugs, there are support groups to help the people deal with their behavior.  They are encouraged not to enable their  behavior which may be outright harmful or subtly harmful and abusive because being mistreated builds up and everyone has a breaking point. If someone has a […]

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