Category: Women

Shit Testing. It’s What We Do

Shit Testing. It’s What We Do

There is not a woman in existence who doesn't shit test. It's part of our make up. We are rarely aware, in the midst of a shit test, that we are doing it. It's organic.  I believe this comes from a woman's deep need for security.  Due to our natural and biological vulnerabilities we seek protection and security.  Shit tests come...Read More
Women Have a Deep Need for Security

Women Have a Deep Need for Security

Women have a great need for security. It is part of our nature to seek security because we are naturally insecure.  On a survival level we have a subconscious awareness of our small size and weaker physical stature and seek protection. While our need for physical protection to compensate for our vulnerabilities that come from being smaller, pregnancy, frailty, etc...Read More
Science Continues to Study and Misinterpret Women’s Desires

Science Continues to Study and Misinterpret Women’s Desires

This article claims that science backs up a woman's desire for bad boys then implores men to be "nice" anyway. "In the end, the idea that women want to date bad boys really just reinforces the misogynist’s idea of deceitful women and earnest “nice” men baffled by their lack of dating success. It allows some men to blame and hate...Read More
How to Stop Feeling Guilty and Start Being A Badass

How to Stop Feeling Guilty and Start Being A Badass

I read an article on Elite Daily last week about how women feel guilty 97% of the time. I found this startling since I also personally find that women blame others 97% of the time.  In this modern world, women are angry. They are angry at the patriarchy, at men, at beauty standards, at air conditioning, at the wage gap,...Read More
Never Give Up More than You’re Willing to Lose

Never Give Up More than You’re Willing to Lose

I live on the ocean and I've grown up spending a lot of time at the ocean, whether it was the cold waters and shell covered beaches of Massachusetts or the warmer waters and sandy beaches of Florida or the quiet beaches in the Carolinas there is one thing in common and it's that building a house on the water...Read More
Women Are Needy and Terrible Listeners

Women Are Needy and Terrible Listeners

It's true.  Women are terrible listeners. I don't know how we got the reputation for being good listeners because we aren't. Not even a little.  I guess we are good at all the peripheral signals of listening: eye contact, nodding, sympathetic sighs, touching a hand, asking probing questions. But when it comes down to actually hearing information as it is...Read More
How To Stay Soft Through Hard Times

How To Stay Soft Through Hard Times

Ladies, One of your most alluring and valuable traits is your softness.  You may not always appreciate these traits in yourself and they may not always serve you, but they are beautiful and should be cherished and protected.  We need more softness in this world and women are the bearers of the softest joys. The way you can see both...Read More
Stop Being So Damn Accommodating

Stop Being So Damn Accommodating

One of the worst things women do when trying to snag a man is to make themselves accommodating. They play the cool chick and present themselves as having not many needs, or even the exact same needs as his. It’s completely artificial! Anyone who is authentic can identify and connect with authenticity in someone else. If you are being fake,...Read More