I am going to show my broken places while sharing how we can carve a new path of self-reliance without shutting opportunities for love and connection. We need to learn to identify who truly deserves our attachment, trust, commitment and loyalty and then give ourselves freely. Not the other way around. We’ve been giving ourselves freely to those who don’t deserve us and then wondering why we are not appreciated, not valued, not loved and protected.
Writer, Lover, Misfit
So much in life is a gamble. While you can do your best to stack the odds in your benefit, there are simply no guarantees. Natural disaster, human error, misinformation. Even with the best preparation and intentions, things don’t always go as planned.
You Can Walk Through Glass If you woke up one day and found out that something that has the capacity to cause great injury had no effect on you, how would you react? If you realized that, for instance, you could walk through glass without […]
Ladies, I’ve noticed a disturbing trend recently of men knowing women’s bodies better than women do. Women are not taking charge of their own sexuality. For all the talk about empowerment and abandoning shame, it seems that female sexual desire is still misunderstood at best and […]
It’s true. Women are terrible listeners. I don’t know how we got the reputation for being good listeners because we aren’t. Not even a little. I guess we are good at all the peripheral signals of listening: eye contact, nodding, sympathetic sighs, touching a hand, […]
Ladies, One of your most alluring and valuable traits is your softness. You may not always appreciate these traits in yourself and they may not always serve you, but they are beautiful and should be cherished and protected. We need more softness in this world […]
Despite all the Martha Stewarts of dating who would like you to believe that the holy grail of a healthy relationship is emotional stability: It’s not. A preoccupation with emotional stability, yours and your partners, will ruin your relationship. Lazy thinking causes people to think […]
First things first; because whenever I post something, people like to point out all the exceptions and that is really such a drag, you should consider getting over yourself. 😉 Disclaimer for the reactive types: This post is not about abuse of any kind. It’s […]