Attraction

It Doesn’t Matter If You’re A Little Ugly

It Doesn’t Matter If You’re A Little Ugly

Men, if you’re kind of ugly, don’t sweat it. If you’ve got rough skin a goofy nose and a soft little belly and scars and asymmetrical eyes, no woman of character will mind. But if you lack self-respect, if you waver on your principles, if you make excuses or shy away from responsibility, there’s no amount of pretty that can save you.

Five Reasons to Make Him Wait For Sex

Five Reasons to Make Him Wait For Sex

You’re a grown woman and you can do what you want. I know. I get it! You will never hear me telling you there’s anything wrong with being sexual, and having sex when you want and who you want. These are absolutely personal decisions that […]

Ladies, Embrace Your Sexuality Damn it!

Ladies, Embrace Your Sexuality Damn it!

Ladies, I’ve noticed a disturbing trend recently of men knowing women’s bodies better than women do. Women are not taking charge of their own sexuality. For all the talk about empowerment and abandoning shame, it seems that female sexual desire is still misunderstood at best and […]

Men Love Sex, Women Love Attention. Get Over It.

Men Love Sex, Women Love Attention. Get Over It.

There’s so much bitterness and resentment currently between the sexes.  Why? Because they simply don’t understand each other.  They want the other to be just like them.  The myth of marrying your best friend and equality and treat him/her how you want to be treated […]

Are Men Threatened by Intelligent Women?

Are Men Threatened by Intelligent Women?

According to the study mentioned in the article “Men are threatened by intelligent women” by the Independent; “Men are attracted to the idea of dating intelligent women – but don’t actually like the reality of it.” I myself at one time believed this to be true […]

Being "Nice" Doesn’t Get You Sex

Being "Nice" Doesn’t Get You Sex

Here’s a secret that Nice Guys don’t seem to understand.  If you read this and you are thinking this is the most obvious post on the planet then you might be either a bad boy or a good guy.  But there are guys who will […]

Emotional Stability Will Ruin Your Relationship

Emotional Stability Will Ruin Your Relationship

Despite all the Martha Stewarts of dating who would like you to believe that the holy grail of a healthy relationship is emotional stability: It’s not. A preoccupation with emotional stability, yours and your partners, will ruin your relationship.  Lazy thinking causes people to think […]

The Truth About Sex

The Truth About Sex

We are living in an environment controlled by shame and animosity. We are conditioned to accept four myths about our nature and even when we claim to deny or disagree with them, we have not completely escaped their control of us. We are still limited […]

Talk Like a Man

Talk Like a Man

Dear Men, I’ve got a beef with you.  Listen to me.  You need to talk like a man. Don’t soften your voice or make it higher.  Don’t change your tone for me.  I am not a child or a dog, I am a woman.  I’ve […]

She’s Not Moody; She’s Horny!

She’s Not Moody; She’s Horny!

Gentlemen, This might sound crazy to you, but bear with me. I want you to start tracking your girlfriend or wife’s menstrual cycle on your smart phone. It’s easy to track on your phone with free apps available through Google Play and the Apple store. […]