Sex, Attraction and Desire

Essays

May September Dating – Not Even Age Can Stop You Now

By Kitten Holiday | Aug 23, 2017

Not only are mid-life singles not limited by race, nationality, religion, distance, or gender, but we are truly no longer limited by age. Forty-five-year-old men can date twenty-five-year-old women, wine them dine them, then turn them in for a different variety without so much as a snide remark. Well, maybe the older single women will […]

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Desire is Life

By Kitten Holiday | Jul 24, 2017

Desire gives our lives meaning and purpose. Wanting something, or someone, gives our life the spark and push we need to work through the hard parts, wake up in the morning, get excited. Desire is the ignition for everything we care about. We may think having all our needs and desires met at the snap […]

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Size Matters

By Kitten Holiday | Nov 25, 2016

Dick Size Matters (as much as you let it). Okay I went for the click bait. But here you are now, reading.  Might as well finish, right? Women love to feel “full” so a larger penis will “fill” us better, more of the time. However, a larger penis (I’d say 6.5 and up) can hurt […]

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Why Men Love Crazy B!tches

By Kitten Holiday | Oct 13, 2016

Men claim all day long they don’t like to date “psycho bitches” or “crazy women” and that they “don’t want drama.” It’s on almost all their dating profiles; “no drama.” This is a big fat lie. This is as big a lie as the women who “want a sensitive, nice guy.” Our actions reveal more […]

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Shit Testing. It’s What We Do

By Kitten Holiday | Sep 30, 2016

There is not a woman in existence who doesn’t shit test. It’s part of our make up. We are rarely aware, in the midst of a shit test, that we are doing it. It’s organic.  I believe this comes from a woman’s deep need for security.  Due to our natural and biological vulnerabilities we seek protection […]

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How Brad Lost Angie #Brangelina

By Kitten Holiday | Sep 21, 2016

Angelina Jolie shit tested Brad Pitt into oblivion. He lost all his masculine power, supplicating himself to her in every way. Because he had no frame, she could not rely on him and her already unstable personality became more and more unhinged. Lacking leader in her man, she became the masculine force, which is a […]

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Be Careful Who You Let Yourself Love

By Kitten Holiday | Jun 25, 2016

Be careful who you let yourself love. The modern dating scene is filled with takers who will play with your heart, waste your time and string you along, get all their needs met while giving nothing but the hope of something more, maybe, someday, just be patient… Hookup culture, modern feminist ideas of the sexually […]

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What is "Game"?

By Kitten Holiday | Jun 21, 2016

We’ve all heard dating called a game. It’s a game of cat and mouse. There are players, winners and losers. There are also “rules of the game,” and ways to cheat the game. But there is also another way that the word “game” is used in dating to describe the traits that make a man […]

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Don’t Ask For Permission

By Kitten Holiday | Apr 4, 2016

Relationships are dying. Passion is dying. Seduction is dying.  Men are turning to porn and robots for sexual fulfillment. Women are turning to romance books and vibrators.  And both are opting out of relationships entirely. It’s just become too much trouble to deal with the opposite sex. We’ve become enemies. We resent instead of appreciate […]

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