Month: September 2016

Shit Testing. It’s What We Do

Shit Testing. It’s What We Do

There is not a woman in existence who doesn't shit test. It's part of our make up. We are rarely aware, in the midst of a shit test, that we are doing it. It's organic.  I believe this comes from a woman's deep need for security.  Due to our natural and biological vulnerabilities we seek protection and security.  Shit tests come...Read More
The Divorce Machine

The Divorce Machine

Society wants you divorced. The very fabric of our social networks support and encourage divorce and many divorces are socially executed in the same way.  It's not a pretty story, but it's a common one.  75% of divorces are initiated by women. And in the majority of these divorces, even if the divorce is initiated for innocuous reasons, the divorce will...Read More
Writing About Sex and Sports

Writing About Sex and Sports

Sex is one of the hardest subjects for many writers. It can be hard enough to talk about; we tend to make jokes, be evasive, fall into cliché descriptions. We love the subject but we don't always love talking about it. Writing about it, in detail, is even harder. It's easy to sound too vulgar or too prudish. It's common...Read More