Month: July 2015

Summer Camp and Badass Boyfriends

Dear Diary,You know how it is when you snag a new guy and he’s one of those irresistible strong, silent types that drive you absolutely bonkers?

Let's Get Dirty

There is nothing better for my soul than gardening.  The sun is too bright for me to see the screen of my phone so I keep it inside.  The fresh air kisses my skin.  I get on my knees with my floral printed gloves and […]

Being "Nice" Doesn’t Get You Sex

Being "Nice" Doesn’t Get You Sex

Here’s a secret that Nice Guys don’t seem to understand.  If you read this and you are thinking this is the most obvious post on the planet then you might be either a bad boy or a good guy.  But there are guys who will […]

It’s Not You, It’s Him

It’s Not You, It’s Him

There are a lot of things to consider when you are dating and seeking a partner.  Most articles eagerly point out the obvious like “do you like him,” “are your lifestyles and values compatible?” One question women often overlook that lands them in miserable, unsatisfying […]

How To Stay Soft Through Hard Times

How To Stay Soft Through Hard Times

Ladies, One of your most alluring and valuable traits is your softness.  You may not always appreciate these traits in yourself and they may not always serve you, but they are beautiful and should be cherished and protected.  We need more softness in this world […]

Rejecting the Nice Guy

Rejecting the Nice Guy

It’s no secret I’m no fan of “nice guys.”  I’m not talking about “good” people here. I love good people. In fact, I’m glad– for the sake of common decency and societal calm–that nice guys are nice and polite as a course of their day […]

The Thursday Night Booty Text

The Thursday Night Booty Text

Does he REALLY think I’m the kind of woman who would accept a text invitation for a poorly disguised booty call on a Thursday night?