She's Not Moody; She's Horny!

Gentlemen,

This might sound crazy to you, but bear with me. I want you to start tracking your girlfriend or wife’s menstrual cycle on your smart phone. It’s easy to track on your phone with free apps available through Google Play and the Apple store.

I’m not telling you this so that you can show up with tampons and chocolate at just the perfect moment (although that would be pretty awesome too!) but so that you can observe the natural peaks and valleys in her hormones to build a better sex life. If you pay attention to her needs and behavior while tracking her menstrual cycle, you will learn how her hormones affect her sexual desire.  This information may help you get more sex, pick the best time to open her up to more variety and ultimately build intimacy with your partner which can lead to a better relationship!

Knowing how her menstrual cycle affects her sex drive will help you tremendously. You will have clues as to what she needs and wants on a primal level. You can learn the best times to push the boundaries. In short, you will have a cheat sheet into determining when she wants you to bang her like a screen door in a hurricane or when she wants you to make love to her slowly and tenderly.  You will be shocked by how closely these vastly different sexual cravings follow the peaks and valleys of her natural hormonal cycle.

Men often complain how hard it is to read and understand women.  Well, there’s an app for that!

The one I use is called P Tracker Lite (it’s free). A screen shot is shown. The triangles in the corner are the days of menstruation. Sex during menstruation can reduce cramps and aching. However, some women are incredibly tired in the first few days of their periods.

If you are regularly sexually active or share a bathroom, you probably know when her period starts and ends. All you have to do is enter these dates into the tracker for a few months and the tracker will start to calculate the rest and will notify you when her period is on the way.

The flower designates the days when she ovulates. Ovulation is a single day on the calendar but according to fertility studies women are most fertile the three days before ovulation.  So the three days before the flower, she is most fertile and also, most horny!  Use that information wisely!

Here’s some more information for you. Before ovulation, the cervix is soft and spongy and the hole in it opens slightly to welcome sperm. If you aren’t trying to have a baby, the important part of this for you is that the cervix is soft. So if you ever have times when she feels pain from taking you in deep or from a pounding, during these days before ovulation, your chances of having rougher sex (if you like that) are much better. Her body can handle it because everything is working together to make her want sex for biological reasons. Her fluids will be more slippery and abundant, her cervix will be soft, she will be more swollen and she will be more horny! Her cheeks will be flushed, her breasts will be more full and whether you are aware of it or not; she is in heat! Biology wants her to want you! In a bad way!

Flirt with her, tease her, be a little more rough with her, take her with passion, unleash your carnal desires when she is ovulating. She might respond with equal or more fierce lust.

In the 2 weeks after she ovulates, (the 26th in the image) she might want to be treated more tenderly. Not only is biology trying to protect her body for a baby, her emotions may cause her to want more understanding and tenderness. After she ovulates, whether a seed is planted or not, her cervix clamps shut and gets firmer, almost hard; and it tilts low into the vaginal canal to protect it. Her cervix is the bouncer and it is protecting her uterus. It is creating a barrier against infection or injury. Rough sex, or deep sex, might actually be painful for her. It’s not you, it’s biology. This is a great time to make love more tenderly. I call this oral sex week. Hey, if you guys get blowjob week the following week when she menstruates, it’s only fair!

And the 3 days before the pink triangles start? The app should have a skull and cross bones there. I’ve requested an update. HA!

So, next time your woman is on her period, start tracking! Pay attention and use her hormones to your advantage.

They’re hormones! She’s not moody, she’s horny!

xoxo!

Kitten

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